Friday, April 30, 2010

Giveaway Extension and Reminder!

Since very few people have entered my giveaway for 10 copies of My Little Red Book edited by Rachel Kauder Nalebuff, I’ve decided to extend the giveaway for another two weeks to May 17.

Read my review and then you can read my period story and enter the giveaway! (I’m hoping it’s not my period story that has scared folks away from this giveaway...)

I’m also giving away 1 copy of The Girls from Ames: A Story of Women and a Forty-Year Friendship by Jeffrey Zaslow, which is currently on blog tours with TLC Book Tours.

Read my review and enter that giveaway too!

Both giveaways are open to U.S. and Canadian residents only (no P.O. boxes) and close on Monday, May 17, at 11:59 PM Eastern Time.

Good luck!

Thursday, April 29, 2010

Review: The Girls from Ames: A Story of Women & a Forty-Year Friendship by Jeffrey Zaslow + Giveaway

When I was younger, I looked upon groups of women having a good time in a public place with a certain amount of envy: although I’ve had close female friends since high school, until fairly recently most of my friendships had been one on one and I often felt uncomfortable in groups. So I was very curious to read The Girls from Ames: A Story of Women and a Forty-Year Friendship by Jeffrey Zaslow, the extraordinary true story of a group of 11 women friends who met in childhood—mostly in preschool, kindergarten or first grade—and thus have basically been friends for their entire lives. Because these women are about my age, I was surprised that I didn’t identify with them more, but then I didn’t grow up in the Midwest, didn’t have a lot of friends in high school (nor was I popular) and don’t have children now. This didn’t stop me from enjoying this book, however. As Zaslow says in his introduction, he has set out to write “the biography of a friendship, meticulously reported,” and in this he has succeeded. Because there were so many “girls” (and I must admit I bristle a bit at this term), he necessarily focused on some of them more than others, but the stories they shared made me laugh and cry and cry some more. (I also developed a little bit of a crush on Marilyn’s dad, a pediatrician and “beloved figure in Ames.”) Stories of mean-girl behaviour, secrets and the loss of loved ones (including one of the girls) are interspersed with lighter stories of celebrity encounters, goofy behaviour and girl bonding in the next generation. Occasionally, the way Zaslow wrote about Kelly, the most outspoken (and nontraditional) member of the group, rubbed me the wrong way, but overall this was a fascinating look at a unique friendship.

Thank you to Penguin USA for sending me this book to review.
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The Girls from Ames is on blog tour with TLC Book Tours in April and May. Visit these other blogs for reviews and giveaways:

Simply Stacie
Silver and Gracechaotic compendiumsRundpinneLuxury ReadingBook Nook ClubSuko’s NotebookFeminist ReviewBookworm with a ViewCafe of DreamsJanel’s JumbleAnniegirl1138 Peeking Between the PagesLife in the Thumblit*chick

Other reviews:

Boarding in My Forties
Book, Line and SinkerMother Daughter Book ClubNonfiction BookPageOffenburger.comStory Circle Book ReviewsWalking with Scissors Reviews
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Would you like to win a copy of The Girls from Ames? Penguin USA has offered to send a copy to one of my readers. The giveaway is open to U.S. and Canadian residents only (no P.O. boxes). I will accept entries until 11:59 PM Eastern Time on Monday, May 17.

For one entry, please answer this question: How old is your longest friendship? Mine will be 28 years old in September: I met my best friend in grade 7 in September 1982. I also have several other female friendships that are 15+ years old.

If you are a follower or subscriber, please let me know and I will give you another entry.

Please be sure to provide me with a way of getting in touch with you. Entries without a blog link or email address will be disqualified.
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Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Similar Covers: Woman, Suitcase, Road...

When I spotted the cover for Leaving Unknown by Kerry Reichs on the TLC Book Tours site about a week ago, it immediately reminded me of another book, but I couldn’t remember its title (even though it was one of those books that seemed to pop up frequently in my Google Reader for a while). Then I saw the book in question mentioned in a Bookworms Carnival on Nicole’s blog, Linus’s Blanket: it was The Girl She Used to Be by David Cristofano. What I didn’t realize until I put them side by side was that the covers are almost exact lookalikes: it’s as if, after thinking it over, the girl she used to be has changed her outfit and is leaving Unknown...



The Girl She Used to Be was first published in March 2009 by Grand Central Publishing (a division of Hachette). Leaving Unknown came out this year with Avon (a Harper Collins imprint).

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Winter Is Back (Ugh!)

It’s hard to believe that only yesterday it was 17°C (63°F) and hot enough in the sun for Mr. B and I to eat lunch outside on our back balcony. This is what it looks like out there today:


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Sunday, April 25, 2010

BEA Planning, Author Sighting, Knitting & Book Sale Loot: Not Really a Mailbox Monday Post (April 26)

This past weekend, I went a little crazy at a local library sale: I picked up a total of 21 books for $28 (including a few not mentioned below as they were for other people). Here are their covers:


The books are:
  1. Address Unknown by Kathrine Kressmann Taylor
  2. Between Interruptions: 30 Women Tell the Truth about Motherhood edited by Cori Howard
  3. Folly by Laurie R. King
  4. No One You Know by Michelle Richmond (read my review)
  5. One Good Turn by Kate Atkinson
  6. Opting In: Having a Child Without Losing Yourself by Amy Richards
  7. Prep by Curtis Sittenfeld
  8. Smashed: Story of a Drunken Girlhood by Koren Zailckas
  9. Summer of the Big Bachi by Naomi Hirahara
  10. The Candy Factory by Sylvia Fraser (not pictured)
  11. The Kiss Murder by Mehmet Murat Somer
  12. The Saturday Morning Murder by Batya Gur
  13. The Underpainter by Jane Urquhart
  14. The Wise Wound: Myths, Realities, and Meanings of Menstruation by Penelope Shuttle and Peter Redgrove
  15. Tipping the Velvet by Sarah Waters
  16. Watching the Roses by Adèle Geras
  17. What the Psychic Told the Pilgrim: A Midlife Misadventure on Spain’s Camino de Santiago de Compostela by Jane Christmas
  18. Wild and Woolly: A Journal Keeper’s Handbook by Alfred DePew
  19. Yoga and the Quest for the True Self by Stephen Cope
I’m also pretty sure I spotted Jo Walton at the sale. (I read and reviewed her novel Farthing in 2008.) She was with a bunch of folk, so I was too shy to approach her (plus I wasn’t 100% sure it was her!).

I also went to Value Village last week and picked up Becoming Myself: Reflections on Growing Up Female edited by Willa Shalit as well as a friend for Cairo...

Cairo with her new friend (click to enlarge)

Finally, the weekend before last, Cindy (Cindy’s Love of Books), Linda (Better with Books), Tina (Bookshipper) and I met for the last time before we go to BEA together next month. (Donna [BookBound] unfortunately couldn’t make it.) I’ve finally gotten my passport and bought my train tickets, so this is really happening!

Tina passed on one book to me: Sweater Quest: My Year of Knitting Dangerously by Adrienne Martini.


All of us (except Tina) brought in our knitting projects. I just finished mine the night before last (it’s a cotton washcloth knit mostly in seed stitch), and I’m trying not to mind too much that one side is obviously a lot looser than the other!


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What did you find in your mailbox this past week? For other Mailbox Monday posts, head over to Marcia’s blog, The Printed Page.

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Similar Covers: Rope, Breaking

I don’t usually use the covers of thrillers or mysteries in my “similar covers” posts, but these ones were too similar to ignore. They are: Limitations by Scott Turow, Rude Awakening by Susan Rogers Cooper, Alex Cross’s Trial by James Patterson and Richard Dilallo and The Broken Thread by Linda Smith (which is actually YA fantasy and the only one of these books I have any interest in reading).

Limitations by Scott TurowRude Awakening by Susan Rogers Cooper
Alex Cross's Trial by James Patterson and Richard DilalloThe Broken Thread by Linda Smith

I love the way the rope on the cover of Limitations runs into the one on the cover of Alex Cross’s Trial,* which reminds me of this challenge issued by Jacket Whys. Have you spotted any other covers that match these?

*Well, it would if I didn’t have a white border around my images now...

Monday, April 19, 2010

Period Stories + Huge Giveaway of My Little Red Book

A few days ago I reposted my (slightly updated) review of My Little Red Book edited by Rachel Kauder Nalebuff to mark the release of the second edition of this book. In my review, I mentioned that reading My Little Red Book had inspired me to write about and reflect on my own experiences of menstruation. So here’s some of my story:

I remember the exact date of my first period—and I usually have a terrible memory for dates—because it was three days before my thirteenth birthday and it was a much-anticipated event: It happened at school in the seventh grade on January 29, 1983—and I was the first of our threesome of friends to get it. I remember going to the washroom, seeing the blood and telling my friends, who were happy for me (and maybe a bit envious?)—it was exciting, a rite of passage, something we were looking forward to (albeit with some ambivalence). I don’t remember what happened next though: Did I have pads with me? Did one of my friends buy me one from a dispenser? I do know I was too embarrassed to tell my mother, but she figured it out and took me into the bathroom to show me where the “supplies” were (as we always called them), in the cupboard behind the bathroom door.

Flash forward to summer 1983. I was in Switzerland for a month, visiting a friend by myself and we went to Austria for a week to stay with her grandparents, who had a cottage on a lake. I guess I was still not used to the whole bleeding-every-month concept because I hadn’t brought any pads with me. One day, as Isabelle and I were lying in the sun on the dock, I could suddenly feel that I was bleeding through my bathing suit onto my towel. I was too embarrassed to say anything, but Isabelle noticed and asked if it was my first time. I recall nodding in agreement, and to my dismay she offered me tampons and pantyliners. Again, I was too embarrassed to admit I’d never used tampons and didn’t really want to. Instead I took one and went off to the bathroom and did my best to insert it. Clearly I didn’t do it right because by the time I got back to the living room, I felt strange and dizzy (and a bit freaked out). I hastily retreated back to the bathroom to remove it. I must have somehow managed with pantyliners for the rest of my period—I don’t remember. I didn’t use tampons again for years (and in fact have never used them regularly—I’m a reusable pad girl now).

What surprises me now, thinking back on this experience, is that I have no recollection of any other conversation taking place between me and Isabelle. I only remember being mute with embarrassment, while she was very matter-of-fact about the whole thing. (She was barely a year older than me.)
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Would you like to win a copy of My Little Red Book? To mark the release of the second edition of this book, Hachette has generously offered to send 10 copies of the book to my readers. The giveaway is open to U.S. and Canadian residents only (no P.O. boxes). I will accept entries until 11:59 PM Eastern Time on Monday, May 17.

For one entry, post a comment here. Please be sure to provide me with a way of getting in touch with you. Entries without a blog link or email address will be disqualified.

Other ways to earn entries:
+1 if you share a period story or answer this question: Do you use euphemisms when talking about your period? (I still call my period “my aunt,” but I don’t use the term “supplies” anymore!)
+1 if you make a relevant comment on my review of My Little Red Book (if you’ve already done so, that counts too)
+1 if you are a follower or subscriber (please let me know)

You can also visit these blogs and read their reviews:

Daisy’s Book Journal Viva la Feminista

Good luck!

Sunday, April 18, 2010

New Blog Design: A Work in Progress



I was up late last night and decided to take the plunge: using the Blogger Template Designer (thanks, Callista, for pointing out its existence), I gave my blog a new look! What do you think? I’m not sure I like where some of my widgets have wound up (but check out my new user pic—I want you all to be able to recognize me at BEA and Book Blogger Con!) and there are a few that obviously still need some adjustment. For example, does anyone know how to fix the “Subscribe by email” box? I also want to change my Subscribe button, but don’t know how...

Do you have any suggestions? Things you like, things you hate? Please let me know!

Edited to add:
Many thanks to Linda at Better with Books for helping me fix my “Subscribe by email” box and my Subscribe button!

Friday, April 16, 2010

Updated Review: My Little Red Book edited by Rachel Kauder Nalebuff

At the beginning of this week, Hachette released a new edition of My Little Red Book edited by Rachel Kauder Nalebuff, which I reviewed last year. To mark the occasion, I’m reprinting my review with revisions to reflect the new edition. (Come back on Monday for a 10-book giveaway + my period story!)

When I started reading My Little Red Book, a collection of women’s stories about their first periods edited by Rachel Kauder Nalebuff, I initially felt mildly disappointed because many of the stories seemed too short and, well, too ordinary somehow, not “literary” enough. And yet by the time I finished the book I felt moved to tears (and inspired to write about and reflect on my own experiences of menstruation). Covering some 90 years of women’s history (from 1916 to 2008) and including 99 essays and poems by women from all walks of life, the power of this anthology is not so much in the individual stories—although many of them are powerful in their own right—but rather in their collective impact. From funny to heart-rending, embarrassing to empowering, each of these stories illuminates what is, after all, a “momentous occasion” (as Nalebuff put it) in every woman’s life.

Highlights of this book for me were: “Hot Dog on a String, 1993” by Ellen Devine, who writes about witnessing something sacred as a child; “Ink Blots and Milk Spots, 1987,” an imaginative retelling of first blood by Krista Madsen; “The Simple Vase: Part I, 1997” and “The Simple Vase: Part II, 1997,” two versions of the same event written by mother and daughter Laura and Rebecca Wexler; “Blood Month, 1979” by Sandra Guy, who writes poignantly about growing up without her sister; and “Twelve-Step Program, 1946” by Marcia Nalebuff (the editor’s grandmother), a touching piece about a grandmother saying exactly the right thing.

Other reviewers have suggested this anthology is particularly good for preteens and mothers of preteens; while I wouldn’t disagree, I would add that My Little Red Book is likely to be of interest to all women.

What’s new in the new edition: There are seven new stories (so 99 instead of the original 92), including stories by Judy Blume, who also reflects on how her experience influenced her writing of Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret, and Diablo Cody (as well as a contribution by a man, which I found a bit odd). Rachel also updates her introduction with a P.S. that mentions some of the things that have happened since the publication of the first edition (for example, “menstruation activism is now a real term”). In addition, the book is now illustrated with Rachel’s tiny (but very cute) drawings. The one thing I miss are the little pink panties, which used to be on the cover!

Hachette has generously agreed to sponsor a giveaway of 10 copies of this book on my blog! Come back on Monday for all the details.

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Similar Covers: Jewel of Medina Lookalike

Last week author Libby Cone, who also blogs at The New Podler Review of Books, pointed out two lookalike covers in a comment on my blog (one of which I’m sure most of you are familiar with): The Jewel of Medina by Sherry Jones and Jezebel: The Untold Story of the Bible’s Harlot Queen by Lesley Hazleton. It’s interesting how different these two covers look, given they both use the same image!



According to Amazon, The Jewel of Medina was published first (in 2008 by Beaufort Books); this paperback version of Jezebel was reprinted by Doubleday in 2009. This is one instance where it’s hard to believe the person who designed the second cover wasn’t aware that image had already been used!

I was sure I’d already seen a post somewhere about a Jewel of Medina lookalike cover, but I can’t find it. Has anyone else seen one?

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Review: Piece by Piece: Stories about Fitting into Canada edited by Teresa Toten

Piece by Piece: Stories about Fitting into Canada edited by Teresa Toten is a collection of 15 stories (including one graphic essay and a spoken-word poem) targeted at young adults. Its contributors hail from all over the world: China, Croatia, England, Grenada, Hungary, India, Iran, Jamaica, Japan, Lebanon, Russia, South Africa and the U.S. About a third emigrated to Canada as children; most, however, moved here as adults. (Only one is a second-generation Canadian.)

I thoroughly enjoyed this book. Here are my thoughts on a few of the essays:

In “Snapshots from the Fringes,” Rachna Gilmore shares the story of how a beloved book—Anne of Green Gables by Lucy Maud Montgomery—had a profound impact on her life. This story brought tears to my eyes, perhaps because I also read the Anne books as a teenager—and can identify with feeling a sense of both belonging and not belonging in PEI, which I visited every summer as a child (my father grew up there).

“A Caravan of Words” by Rachel Manley is probably my favourite essay in the book because it’s about cats and words and Montreal (even though she doesn’t love Montreal as I do)—and the anecdote about how Manley became the official Jamaican interpreter in Toronto is absolutely priceless!

The hardest essay to read was “You’re Not from Around Here, Are You?” by Linda Granfield, who came to Canada from the U.S. to go to university and found that Canadians didn’t live up to their reputation for being polite and tolerant. Instead, she found that anti-American sentiment was rampant—during the Gulf War, she felt she was living in fear in her adopted country. While I don’t want to belittle her experience, and I know firsthand the pain of being excluded based on your cultural background, I was uncomfortable with the fact that she used the word “racism” to describe this type of discrimination. At the same time, this piece made me squirm in recognition: anti-Americanism is unfortunately alive and fairly socially acceptable in Canada.

The weakest piece in the book was “Under the Armpit of Noah,” the spoken-word poem by Boonaa Mohammed. Perhaps it’s because I’m not generally a fan of spoken-word poetry—and no doubt the piece would have a greater impact if it was performed—but I found it didn’t sustain my interest in the same way the other stories did.

Finally, I had to wonder why the story “Shadow Play” by Rui Umezawa was included in this anthology. Although Umezawa now lives in Toronto, this essay is not about Canada at all—it takes place in Milwaukee, Wisconsin!

Exoticism, like accents and ethnicity, is something we often think only other people or places have—especially if we are white and North American. But in fact, everyone has an accent and an ethnicity—and every place can be exotic if seen from the outside, as evidenced from the stories in Piece by Piece. At the same time, a book like this is also a reminder that anyone can be an outsider, and most if not all of us have felt like outsiders at some point in our lives.

Other reviews: Movable HypeQuill & QuireRoverSal’s Fiction AddictionSpin Me I PulsateWhat If?

You can also read an interview with the editor: Torontoist

Read Teresa Toten’s introduction to the book (and her powerful story): “My Piece

Thank you to Penguin Canada for sending me this book to review.

Monday, April 12, 2010

Mailbox Monday (April 12)

Mailbox Monday buttonTwo more books appeared in my mailbox for review this week: My Little Red Book edited by Rachel Kauder Nalebuff (and yes, I’ve reviewed this book before, but this new edition contains some new content) from Hachette and Getting a Grip 2: Clarity, Creativity and Courage for the World We Really Want by Frances Moor Lappé from Small Planet Institute. I also received Vanessa & Virginia by Susan Sellers from Frances at Nonsuch Book.

My Little Red Book edited by Rachel Kauder NalebuffGetting a Grip 2 by Frances Moore LappéVanessa and Virginia by Susan Sellers

What did you find in your mailbox this past week? For other Mailbox Monday posts, head over to Marcia’s blog, The Printed Page.

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

Similar Covers: More of the Same

This week I’m posting images that have been spotted on other covers before...

First up is a familiar-looking image that appears on the cover of Just Like Heaven by Barbara Bretton (you may remember it from this lookalike post), which I also found on the Disney Family Parenting site:




Then the night before last, I came across a third dandelion puff cover, to go with The Next Thing on My List by Jill Smolinski and Falling Apart in One Piece by Stacy Morrison: The Decoding of Lana Morris by Laura and Tom McNeal. (This third cover appears to have been first referred to on Alternative Teen Services in this post, which was subsequently re-posted here and here.)



Finally, here’s a duo of army boot covers sent to me yesterday by Eva at One Swede Read (thanks, Eva!): On War by Bernard Shaw and Beaufort by Ron Leshem. This particular pair of boots has appeared on at least three other covers: check out this “Boots Quadruplet” post at Jacket Whys for the other three (plus Beaufort again).



Have you come across any covers you’ve seen before? Let me know!

BEA 2012, HERE I COME!